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子弦 | 9th Jul 2007, 16:06 PM | 隨想 | (36 Reads)

那天的傾談過程中,那位陳教授提出一個問題:S,我剛才快速地看妳答的題目,從妳寫的東西及妳的背景資料,感覺妳是很感性的人,我擔心妳做這份工作可能會很frustrated…
真有趣,我自覺那份答案的內容和語調是很「理性」的,基本上是一個評論,他竟然也覺得感性;唉,這真是我的大問題。最近在想,自己這年學了些什麼,其中一點應該是「控制」(temper比較準確) 情感;顯然,我的情感還是太暴露。我的人生總在同一個循環或陷阱中掙扎:indulgence–pleasure–suffering–tragedy,總無法將情感放在一個合適的位置,也無法管束它的氾濫,只讓它有無盡的空間將我吞噬。
我相信那種暴露的情感直接令他們喜歡我,但我也知道「水能載舟,亦能覆舟」的道理。
這是終身學習的課題,但願我永遠記著


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nice to know you've got the offer! It seems to be a very competitive post and your "bosses" like you alot even at the interview stage. You always give people a good impression. Good Luck!

I also got some changes in work as well, my boss had discussed promotion with me, to replace my immediate boss who has been in pregnant leave right now. My big boss who looked after our team (not chung) is also leaving, so it would be a mess. (!) I am not sure when will it formally start,though my boss already discussed renumeration with me, but I am already acting for my immediate boss. This is a new challange for me, and as my boss said, it is a golden chance for me while all the "bosses" are aways or gone.

Let's have dinner with K?


[引用] | 作者 da | 9th Jul 2007 18:13 PM | [舉報垃圾留言]

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Wow, really happy to know that you finally have the opportunity to move on to the next platform! After all these years, you absolutely deserve it. I'm sure you can meet the challenge, especially when you're already at the acting post.
As for me, I won't allow myself to be too happy at this early stage coz there're always uncertainties. You know, there're some negative comments on the professor I'm working for within the academic circle (from his former HKU students), mainly relating to his love affairs with different girls. I can "smell" that D is affected by those comments as well (of course men are not happy when his girl will work with someone with such history/rumours)Perhaps I'm a comparatively simple person, I just wanna take a look at the academic stream and it doesn't concern me whether he is formerly or presently involved in anything.
I worry more about the job instead coz I know nothing about academic journal, know very little of literature, movies, research, etc. It may take me a while to adapt to the new environment. I feel very difficult to talk about remuneration (but I need to) and I hope it hasn't ruined the relationship.
Let's talk more when we meet. What about Fri nite? I'm struggling on my course thesis again but once I figure out the direction, I could come out on any evening.


[引用] | 作者 子弦 | 9th Jul 2007 22:35 PM | [舉報垃圾留言]